Tuesday, March 15, 2011
What thing should you do?
We are all students. Of course all of our parents wants us to finish our studies. If your parents are very strict with all your action, most especially of having a relationship to others, They told you the consequences/results you'll feel/get if you did not follow them.one of your classmates like/wants you, and you have also a feelings/attraction with him/her but you are afraid with your parents.What should you do to avoid relationship with him/her?
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It's not bad to enter in a relationship as long as you know your limitations.But it is much better to concentrate on your studies because there will be time for those things
ReplyDeleteKriza Mae
ReplyDeleteFor me I think you can enter into a relationship as long as you know you're limitations.
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ReplyDeleteWell, having a relationship is not a bad idea as long as you don't take it too seriously but I don't mean you should toy with each others feelings we are still teenagers don't view your boyfriend or girlfriend as your husband or wife because if you take your relationship too seriously it will only suffocate you. My best advice is to concentrate in your studies. We are easily infatuated and we are volatile, we change our minds easily. Just enjoy being a teenager.
ReplyDeleteAlthough my comment may be late for checking, let me give my opinion.
ReplyDeleteI have heard many people say that "having a relationship especially while in high school is normal." "It's alright as long as you do not take it seriously." Etc.
I grew up in a traditional family with strict grandparents. Mind you, they really are strict. They even get paranoid sometimes.
Let's get back to the issue. For me, it's better to set aside having a relationship while studying. It is distracting. Others have it for experience, for fun, and for "love?". That's ridiculous. Why not enjoy your youth and spend time with yourself? Remember, youth does not last forever. A romantic relationship is not one-sided. You have to give and receive or else the relationship will turn sour. It might cause a break up with you as the "cause".
Another reason is that its just a headache. Here are some examples. It is normal to have misunderstandings but it is irritating because you have to bother yourself to think of ways on how you would solve the problem. It destroys your concentration. As a student you have assignments and projects to make, notes to study and lessons to learn, and activities to participate in. As part of your family you are obliged to do your best in school.You also have to fulfill the tasks given by your parents and that includes household chores, baby sitting, feeding pets and farm animals (if you have those), etc.
I realized that our teenage life is almost spent in school. It would be better to cherish these moments while we can because after college we would face a harder problems. After adolescence we will now enter the adult life which will become our permanent "status" until we marry , get old, and die. Don't rush. We have all the time. Don't believe the 2012 doomsday theory.
The best way to avoid a romantic relationship with that person is to dismiss the idea that you like him/her. Remember, that we are still young. What you feel about that person may change. As time goes by,You might get to know him/her better and you may realize that you do not "meet" (or you are not meant to be). Also, do not show that person that you are romantically attracted to him or her. It leads that person to think that you are "in love" with him/her. That might cause the "spark".